We feel bored sometimes. in a relationship. Bored is a natural emotion. You can easily spice up your relationship.
If you feel bored in a relationship, you are not the only one. Even you married the most beautiful girl whom you have vowed to stay forever, you feel bored sometimes.
Many people have their dream jobs but they feel exhausted sometimes. Even billionaire CEOs become depressed sometimes in their career.
Before you enter a relationship, everything seems wonderful. You find your partner the most attractive person in the world. You feel happy and excited.
But the feeling does not last very long. You start to feel bored in a relationship.
If you stuck in the same routine every day, you will be bored. You cannot eat the same food even it is very good. You need variations of taste.
You can do many things when you get bored:
You should not see one another all the time. Both of you sometimes have to be on your own.
It is not a bad idea if you eat out alone or go on a long drive to refresh your mind.
When I am out of home for some days on an official tour, I miss my wife. When I come home everything feels just good.
If both of you are feeling very bored, then take a vacation somewhere. You are together but you are in a new environment. That helps. You can explore new things together, you two can have fun in a different way. That refresh a relationship when you have adventure and excitement together.
When you are home, you got to come out from the tight routine. You have to do something new every day. You play a new game together. You go somewhere and eat something new.
You should not talk about the same topic every day. Don’t talk always about shopping, job, and money. There are plenty of other things to talk about.
Boredom is a normal emotion. Don’t exaggerate it. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Every relationship suffers from tension and stress. You have to listen to your heart. You love your wife. She loves you, too. You have to renew your love by doing new things.
Most of the people other women more attractive than their wives. You can feel that, too. But it is just temporary diversion of mind. It is your wife who is beautiful.
You have to spice up your sex life. You should do it regularly and experiment with different positions. Don’t let it be boring.